Five Great Tips On How To Get Girls

Postby daj_bro » 10 Oct 2006, 23:06

Here you go guys! don't spend too much in looks, look what i got for you, enjoy :thumbsup:

Five Great Tips On How To Get Girls

Among the many emotions that man was destined to experience, it seems that love is the best emotions ever created. No wonder why many people are wishing to find their own true love to be happy and live a life that is full of contentment and satisfactions in spite of the many trials that life has to offer. According to some surveys, most of the people would want to marry some day, that is why each of them are willing to go out on dates. In the U.S. alone, nearly 53% said that they have dated more than one person at the same time.

However, the concept boils down to the fact that even if dating seems to be the ideal ways to start develop a great relationship founded on true love, still it cannot be directly concluded that the activity is relatively easy. Take for example the idea of getting a girl. Many boys are having a hard time finding the best strategy to get girls. This is because many boys also have their own fears, especially the fear of rejection. So for those who want to know how to get a girl and ask her on a date, here are five ways that will surely make you get one and have fun:

1. Create a dazzling personality
According to some statistical reports, almost 30% of the adult population in the U.S. who are engaged into dating activities stated that the most important attribute that they are looking for in a guy is the personality. That is why most girls insist that the looks are not that important, what matters most is the personality of the person.

So if you really want to succeed in getting a girl, try to create an impression first that you have the best personality in the world. This can be projected through your sense of humor, confidence, and the way you carry the conversation with wit.

2. Be cool
The key to getting a girl should not project an air of desperation. Even if you have not dated a girl yet, try to be cool and create an impression that you want to get the girl because you like her and not because you are in desperate need of a partner.

3. Be ready for rejections
The problem with most people, especially guys, is that they have too high expectations when it comes to dating and relationships. In fact, almost 62% of those who are into dating have asserted that the people’s probabilities and expectations are very high these days. Hence, it is a must that people must learn how to face rejections, especially men, so that getting girls would be easier. Keep in mind that girls can still say no even if you have the best car, good looks, and dazzling personality. If in case you were not able to get the girl that you want, try to reflect what might have been the cause why she had rejected you. Also, there are still other girls out there that you can turn to, so do not be despaired

4. Consider the “No” of the girl
There are many cases wherein a girl might say “no” for two possible reasons: one is that she does not like you, and the second reason is that she wants to go out with you but not tonight. These are two different situations that must be clearly understood. The problem with some guys is that they take it personally whenever they receive some forms of rejections. So it is better to analyze the situation and the intention of the girl by saying “NO.”

5. Be casual
The best way to get a girl is to make her feel that the date would be very casual and would not necessarily involve a conventional date or anything that would imply romantic involvement. What matters most is for the girl to enjoy her time with you such that if both of you stand a chance of having a good relationship in the future, the memory of your first date should have been vested on good recall.

The bottom line is that guys should never make the girls feel pressured in saying “yes” every time they are being asked to go out. What matters most in getting a girl is to make it sure that the person concerned will be comfortable and would feel that she will be in good hands.

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I totally agree with you. Looks are not the only thing, though it helps to catch the attention in the first place.

I personally tend to get friendly with someone I would want to go out with, then after we've known each other a bit I make the BIG MOVE! I haven't dated a lot of girls, but this worked for me when I did. may not work for you, so don't come running after me when u have a black eye after asking her out. he he!
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Im really surprised to see that the source was on a sex website! Most of the time on sex sites,it's not like that at all! Great Find!
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Some really useful and interesting tips..I hope it works
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cool tips!!
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Man!!! where was this article earlier?!!!..... I was in a real need of this !!! ha ha ha... though gud tips!!
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man!watever may the stastics say in the u.s.,wat i've personally seen and or experienced is that looks also do count,wat i mean to say is that the first law of attraction comes frm sight n then the conversation starts,so if the opposite *** finds u horrible looking then u have no chance of a converstion,so the matter of personality doesnt come into play.........
wat do u say???
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Enigma's Right!!!
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Oh what a great tip...
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i think daddy got me wrong......was it scarsm that u were casting in ur comment?
ne ways wat i meant was that,we should no ignore the presentation element,the least we can do is try n look the best we r........thats all....
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hi my shey i want to know to get a boy
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Ok!!....Shey....just get me ur phone # ... m all urs!! ha ha ha.... unless u r a guy n Gay!!!
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hehheheheee
nice one nirmal!
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hey................u need to keep that tips wid u it may work out for u.......................
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